Seeking out psychotherapy is an investment in yourself so that you can reach your dreams and overcome emotional hurdles like depression, anxiety, trauma, loss, relationship problems, and addictions. I have experience helping hundreds of people jump over these types of hurdles and get more of what they want from life. I do this by creating a safe and confidential space where we can explore and understand what's getting in the way. I work with adolescents, adults, and older adults, as well as group work and families. I specialize in the diagnosis and treatment of people who have substance use and process addictions, depression, anxiety, as well as individuals that have experienced various forms of physical, sexual, and psychological abuse, and war-related trauma. I utilize mindfulness and acceptance strategies in conjunction with cognitive behavioral and dialectical behavioral techniques. I am further certified in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and most enjoy working with clients to transform painful emotions and experiences into opportunities for healing and growth. Schedule an appointment online or call today.

Play Therapy & Mindfulness Parent Therapy “You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation". Plato Play is the child's language and play therapy is the path to understanding. We all seek to be understood. As a parent, do you find yourself reacting to versus understanding why or how your child's behavior and developmental needs may contribute? Play therapy and parenting mindfully turns even the most difficult moments with your child into an opportunity to highlight the message behind the action. The "therapeutic powers of play" provide children the opportunity experience healing as they explore and process their world in an environment that makes sense to them. Parents learn to attune to their child providing true understanding, support and connection. Children and parents have the power to "pause" and chose their response. Mindful parenting allows you to be in the "moment" with your child. Think of the times as a child, when you felt invisible, neglected, worthless, experienced betrayal or violence. Play therapy offers your child a natural safe place to explore experiences, feelings, develop self understanding and coping skills. I work closely with parents to provide a meaningful connection to meet everyone's needs.ime, how often we say there is never enough time. What message are we sending our children? Being a mindful or conscious parent means not only being present with your child but asking for support when you need it. Just ask, I will advocate for and support your child at Special Education Meetings, review Individualized Education Plans, communicate with teachers, doctors and other professionals in your child's life.

It has been my privilege to work with people to assist them in finding their own inner strengths and their path to wellness as they overcome the challenges we all can face in our lives. The answers to the blocks we all experience are found within, and though we struggle to identify them, implement those answers, and find clarity, as a team the journey can be much easier. I join with my clients to forge the way with joy, and hope while maintaining a safe, grounded space from which to work. Compassion, acceptance, and patience hold the client in his or her truth, and form the basis of a strong and effective therapeutic relationship, and this relationship is the essential element for the trust that is needed to address difficult issues and make changes that can lead to a fuller and more rewarding life. One of the tools that I have used with great success in working with my clients is EMDR. EMDR is a relatively new psychotherapeutic treatment tool, which I am pleased to offer to my clients. Developed just a couple of decades ago. Now practiced all over the world it offers rapid results with a variety of issues that clients frequently bring to the therapeutic process. EMDR is stated to be the foremost treatment tool in major trauma such as combat, or child abuse, but is also used effectively for lifelong challenges that may be based on "minor" traumas that have left negative self beliefs behind such as "I am worthless" or "I don't deserve..." that can affect and limit any aspect of an individual's life. The EMDR technique, which is simple, safe and yields rapid results, involves bilateral stimulation of the left and right brain hemispheres via either eye movements fro

Insights Wellness Center works with individuals and groups. We specialize in relationship issues and work with individuals, couples, and families. Addiction diagnosis and treatment are also part of the work that we do at Insights. Depression anxiety self esteem and life coaching can also be treated here at our practice. We use more than one type of approach including, but not limited to, cognitive behavioral therapy, solution focused therapy, task centered and symptom management. Our practice is skilled at working with your insurance company and we are contracted with several major carriers. Call today and ask any questions you may have. Groups for women and teen girls forming now! Currently providing tele-behavioral health services!

There are times in our lives when we don't know what is wrong; just that something is. We wonder if we are "crazy" and are scared to be judged if we ask for help. The truth is that very sane people struggle when the difficulties in their lives outpace their coping skills. I've been a therapist for 18 years and believe strongly that healing comes through connection with others. As we increase our knowledge, we become healthier and more resilient when approaching future problems. It is an honor to work alongside people as they discover hidden strengths and resources.

I applaud your courage in reaching out and seeking therapy. Whether this is your first time or you've been in therapy before, whatever life-challenge you are facing, it would be my privilege to help. I welcome you to the comfort of my office, a nurturing, confidential space....a safe haven where you can give voice to your deepest needs and concerns, where expression of *all* feelings are gently encouraged, and truly heard. In an atmosphere of warmth and unconditional acceptance, I will value, respect and listen deeply to you as we work together to ease your pain. We will look beyond your symptoms to identify and understand the root causes of your distress, freeing you to heal, grow and create the full, meaningful life that you envision and deserve. Issues frequently addressed include: grieving past or recent loss, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, self-criticism, teen issues, gay and lesbian concerns, job and school-related issues, assertiveness, creative blocks, and family conflict. In our time together I will help you develop increased awareness of your thoughts, feelings, needs and patterns of behavior as you explore your inner world, access your strengths and gain the freedom to be yourself - to deeply know, value and appreciate who you truly are, not who you think you should be, or others expect you to be. Honoring the uniqueness of each person, I celebrate diversity and welcome clients from all sexual orientations, ethnic and racial backgrounds and religious/spiritual beliefs. No matter how long you you have struggled or how difficult your situation, we can work together to transform your pain into empowerment, inner peace, and hope. Please feel free to contact me to discuss your particular concerns or schedule an appointment. You don't have to struggle alone.

Creative Now Therapy is a somatic, depth-oriented, and spiritually grounded practice led by Cris Maria Fort Garcés, a clinically trained and mystically tuned psychotherapist. The practice specializes in art therapy, Gestalt-inspired therapy, shadow work, astrology consultations, and tarot card readings. Sessions empower clients to work through stress, trauma, and life transitions while strengthening resilience and mind-body awareness. Holding it together on the outside while falling apart inside — smiling at work, showing up for others, but privately dealing with irritability, resenting the people you love, shutdowns, or physical symptoms you can’t ignore. Wrestling with a brutal inner voice — catching yourself spiraling into self-blame or harsh criticism, knowing it’s hurting you but feeling powerless to stop it. Losing your sense of who you are/in the wake of major shift — the things you once wanted no longer make sense, and you’re terrified because nothing new feels solid yet. You feel unmoored and unsure who you are, roles you’ve always played aren't fitting. Shrinking yourself to keep the peace — saying yes when you’re overwhelmed, hiding your real feelings, or disappearing emotionally in relationships you care about. Spiritually off-course — disconnected from the part of you that used to believe, create, or feel guided by something bigger. You wonder, "where is my center?" Burned out in your body and spirit — exhausted but unable to rest, buzzing at night, waking anxious, or feeling like your system is stuck in overdrive. You’ve tried to keep it together, but something in you knows this isn’t sustainable. This isn’t just stress, it’s your soul asking for more. You don’t need another tool or training. You need a place to land, to breathe, and to come home to yourself.

When someone asks how you are, the words 'exhausted' or 'so busy' come to mind. Trying to be all things to all people is wreaking havoc on you. But you don't answer; you can't wait to change the subject & focus on something or someone else. It's a welcome distraction to focus on other people who come to you with their problems; besides, you like to help, it makes you feel good. But you have worries, too. Good sleep is a luxury these days. Anxiety is no longer fuel for your never-ending to-do list; it's now getting in the way & sucking the fun out of everything. You're ready to stop pretending it's not wearing you out. I can help. Need to vent? That's a good place to start, but we don't stop there. We work with your strengths, goals & unique worldview to decide the way forward that best suits you. I'll challenge you to look at things in new ways & through our work together, you can learn how to manage stress/anxiety & improve relationships to help you live life the way you want. You can do things differently. You don't have to listen to the critical voice in your head telling you to 'do more, go faster, it's not enough'. If you're ready to figure out what's driving that, I can help. I invite you to schedule a brief consultation call to see if we're a good fit to work together.

With more than 30 years of clinical experience, my clients (adults, couples and groups) tell me they most appreciate my patience, insight and good humor. I believe deeply in my clients' abilities to find their truth when met with skill and honesty offered without judgment. Many come people come to me with trauma-based issues. It is essential for fear and frustration to be addressed in ways that are both effective and tolerable. I often use EMDR as well as EFT - Meridian Tapping and Mindfulness Practices to help clients move through painful memories and/or negative, limiting self-beliefs which get in the way of high performance and joyful living. I do not practice "cookie cutter" therapy - each client is unique in his or her needs. The first thing I do with each person is listen. Then, together, we work out a plan that will meet your needs in the safest, most respectful and efficient way possible.

At the foundation of my approach, I conceptualizes all individuals and their interactions with others (relationships) within the Systems framework. More simply, one cannot understand the dynamic of our struggles without exploring the familial, social, and cultural contexts. My work is based in Solution-Focused Therapy. This encourages dialogue to explore client's strengths, resources, and past successes. My collaborative approach fosters a sense of agency in clients, creating a co-constructed dialogue to explore and create realistic attainable therapeutic goals. This approach further emphasizes that clients best understand their unique circumstances. Therefore the role of therapist is to support a co-constructed dialogue around necessary changes in perceptions, thoughts, and behaviors. Lastly, I bring to the environment a compassionate and gentle stance, providing my clients with a warm and safe environment allowing more opportunity for clients to deeply explore their history and present struggles.

Scott W. Stern is named “TOP CLINICAL SOCIAL WORKER IN NEW YORK, NEW YORK” by the International Association of Healthcare Professionals and is published in Worldwide Leaders in Healthcare. He has integrated empowerment techniques into his private practice for over 20 years. He is a specialist in the treatment of addictions, anxiety, OCD, trauma and Post Traumatic Stress. He is an award winning author, editor and subject matter expert. He provides training and clinical supervision to other mental health and addiction professionals. He is an international expert witness in his field featured by The Expert Institute and JurisPro Expert Witness Association. He serves as a member of the NASW Addictions Institute for Policy, Planning, Training and Development in New York City. He is a former Contractor/Care Ambassador and Team Lead at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) in Atlanta and New York City. He trained in psychiatry and addiction treatment at major New York City hospitals, medical centers and private clinics. He has treated adults, adolescents and families in both inpatient and outpatient settings. He has served as district examiner to substance abuse counselors for the New York State Office of Alcoholism and Substance Abuse Services. He is an authority who has been featured in the media for his work in mental health health as well as for PTSD/Trauma Response throughout the 9/11 World Trade Center disaster, and other critical incidents. Prior to establishing his private practice, he was educated at UC Berkeley, New York University and Harvard University.

My clients are fundamentally healthy, curious, and creative people who are feeling stuck in some way. They have come to counseling because they are finally ready to put to rest some old family issues, or are running into patterns or anxieties that they are tired of carrying around. Counseling helps mobilize your own resources to regain a sense of purpose, aliveness, and meaning. In addition to my counseling practice, I am a holistic health coach, offering nutritional coaching program to people who want to make dietary and lifestyle changes that will increase their energy, health, and happiness.

Are you struggling to feel like "yourself" again? Are you unable to feel settled, unable to keep up with your schedule or commitments? Are you feeling upset or more emotional for no apparent reason? Crises, be they large or small, disorient and leave us feeling uncertain, less able to rely upon and function like "ourselves." Growth and change are among the most positive and humanly adaptive qualities and yet the most uncertain and difficult experiences in life. At such times we want unbiased and reliable support to help restore our sense of self and help make positive choices for our lives. I've found the most important predictor in effective treatment is a positive connection between a person and their therapist. I provide a caring approach, empathic attunement, collaborative support, psycho-educational skills training, and the belief that growth and change are possible.

I believe everyone has the capacity to change and improve the quality of their life, no matter what has happened. My style of counseling combines working with insight and cognitive therapy, which explores past events in light of how the choices we now make affect well - being. I also utilize an awareness approach, whereby, getting in touch and releasing the feelings in the body helps to create a new sense of relief and empowerment.

Welcome! At this time I am doing phone therapy and some video therapy only. As your therapist, I will listen to you with care, interest, empathy, presence and compassion. I will support your emotional healing in a way that respects who you are. I will support your personal strengths, and help you engage them as fully as possible. I agree with Rogers, who believes that when a person experiences unconditional acceptance and empathic understanding from someone who is genuine and real, healing and growth occur. My style is generated from various humanistic psychotherapies with an interest in the mind/body/spirit interrelation, combined with a grounding in classical theories. Gestalt and IFS Therapy both view us as composed of a complex combination of personality components. Many difficulties arise from unresolved conflicts among these. A satisfying, productive life requires these components be mutually aware of and cooperating with each other. These therapies are powerful tools for this kind of integration. I passionately believe, to best serve others, therapists must responsibly examine their own internal world with intention of constantly improving honesty, integrity, presence, compassion, and commitment to the clients best interests. Since I believe in the importance of a good match between therapist and client, I offer a free consultation.”

We are a group of highly trained professionals. We deal with all ages, and do individual, couple and family therapy. We are also play therapists capable of dealing with the needs of young children. We offer groups in Anger Management, Parenting, Boundaries, ADHD Skills, and more. We are all Christians and incorporate faith if desired by our clients.

I have a creative based and psychoanalytically informed psychotherapy practice. I pull from all theories of human development and apply them as they apply specifically to the issues at hand. Strengths and problems are both addressed as the individual finds important. My expertise is on emotional regulation, identity development, and relationship dynamics. We may focus on the hear and now, address past issues, and often connect the two to address and resolve current distress. I listen and find listening to be a major part of the therapeutic work. Goals and perspectives addressed in treatment are arrived at collaboratively. Education and support can be offered as dynamics unfold and the therapy deepens and transforms.

Ms. Jennifer Krom is a Connecticut Licensed Professional Counselor. Jennifer founded One Piece of the Puzzle, an organization dedicated to providing high quality behavioral support services for children and families affected by Autism Spectrum Disorders and mental health illness. One Piece of the Puzzle started as a passion for volunteering and helping others at a young age which was modeled by her family of teachers. This passion developed into a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology and a Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology and a desire to devote her knowledge and time towards supporting families and individuals with special needs. Jennifer has over twenty years of experience working with children, adolescents and adults diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorders, mental health illnesses and their families addressing a variety of mental health, social, emotional and educational needs. Jennifer has extensive training in Applied Behavior Analysis and Functional Behavioral Assessments as well as treatment experience for Autism Spectrum Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Trauma, Depression and Mood Disorders, Conduct Disorder and in working with individuals with intellectual and learning disabilities. She has also working in public and clinical school settings as well as acute psychiatric hospitals and has provided in-home behavioral supports. Jennifer presented at National Association of Social Workers Convention as well as Grand Rounds Trainings at Riverview Hospital for Children and Youth and Connecticut Regional Educational Consortium regarding diagnosis, treatment modalities and how to access services for individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorders and have trained other clinician in Functional Behavior Analysis and the Behavior Support Plan process. Jennifer is committed to providing a trusting and supportive experience for both the identified client as well as meeting the needs of the family and building collaborate relationships with other treatment providers with the spectrum of care. Jennifer has a strong commitment to building collaborative relationships as the core of effective treatment.

Providing individual, group, couples and family counseling. Treatment specialization includes: Addictions - Alcohol, Drugs, Sex Therapy for Depression and Anxiety Couples Counseling Family Counseling Parenting Support Grief Counseling Work and Career issues Stress Management Sexual Complusion / Addiction Trauma Addiction & Recovery

The Adolescent & Family Counseling Center, our outpatient private practice since 1980, offers therapeutic care and other services including mental health, health, and educational services. We perform our assistance to clients through assessments, evaluations, and individual, couples, family, and group psychotherapy. We also offer EAP / Employee Assistance Program services, workshops, and presentations to our clients and to members of the community. Our professional staff of clinicians consists of 12 psychotherapists, each of whom has a Connecticut license as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker / LCSW, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist / LMFT, or Licensed Professional Counselor / LPC. We are on most major insurance panels. Several of us are also Connecticut Certified School Social Workers / CSSW. At various times, we also have aboard a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Registered Dietician, Psychiatrist, and Certified School Guidance Counselor. For over 39 years, we have caringly served child / children, teenagers, adult, and senior adult clients presenting behavioral, emotional, and psychological issues of abuse, addictions including alcoholism and substance abuse, anxiety, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder ADHD, depression, divorce, grief, parenting sexual issues, violence and other trauma, and victims / survivors of child sexual abuse / CSA. Our primary office, Cheshire, serves that community and contiguous surrounding towns of Southington, Meriden, Wallingford, Hamden, Bethany, Waterbury, Prospect, and Wolcott .. and beyond. Our Danbury office serves that community and the contiguous towns of the Housatonic Valley, including Bethel, Bridgewater, Brookfield, New Fairfield, Newtown, New Milford, Redding, Ridgefield, and Sherman. There are no geographic boundaries for receiving our services and some clients travel significant distances for our assistance. They may have been referred by family members, friends, their physician, EAP support-team, or they have been self-referred, searching for us on competent find-a-therapist sites like this one.

I will help you bring forth your natural well-being to improve your experience of life and your relationships. My approach to counseling is educational and I will provide many resources to deepen your understanding of ther inside-out nature of life. This approach, sometimes referred to as "health realization," guides clients/students toward insights since positive and sustainable change occurs automatically through insight. There is no need to practice techniques or strategies. Insights last a lifetime and help you to bounce back quicker from difficult situations regardless of your situation or circumstances. It all begins with a simple conversation to uncover the ways in which you've been thinking that may be hidden in your blind spot but is getting in the way of a fulfilling life. I also provide coaching sessions for business executives and work teams to help maximize individual potential and team performance.

Life is a series of adjustments... it is normal to get stuck at points along the way. Most of my clients are regular people just like you and me whose Life has gotten too far out of balance. I have learned through my years of practice how to facilitate the rebalancing and, even more importantly, how to help clients learn the lessons inherent in their crisis. I have been practicing at the same location for over 20 years. I am involved in the training and supervision of other therapists in both EMDR and Internal Family Systems.

Private and personalized client centered therapy. The highest outcome from therapy are long-term lasting intimate relationships. Sometimes we can become overwhelmed by our life situations and are unable to successfully integrate our experiences. Instead we are taken hostage by our symptoms and without professional help the best we able to do is experience temporary relief. Quality therapy produces trait change which is permanent. Sessions are paced and have a progressive informed consent approach that keeps you in the "window of tolerance" and self-regulation techniques are taught and practiced to ensure your ability to ground yourself. Mindfulness techniques help you to stay present and breath techniques help you experience mind-body relief.

I believe in the power of change and each person's ability to achieve progress. My approaches are most often strength based and person centered. I use motivational interviewing as a counseling method to explore goals in therapy; along with the use of counseling modalities that stem from Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Exercise as therapy. My practice has also begun using EMDR to treat trauma and assist individuals in working through negative cognitions that effect their human experience. ​ ​ The mission of Uplift and Recover LLC is to provide hope and encouragement that uplifts and inspires individuals to develop insight and take action.

We are now offering on-line counseling TR Counseling & Wellness offers individual, couples, and family therapy. TR Counseling & Wellness provides effective, compassionate counseling in a private setting. There are four therapists at TR Counseling & Wellness meeting the needs of diverse populations with a variety of issues. We specialize in addiction, OCD, anxiety disorders, panic disorder, stress management, Christian counseling, women's issues, trauma/PTSD, and more.

Imagine feeling in control of your life again. You feel calm, focused and relaxed. You have the strategies and tools necessary to keep your stress in check and you’re making strides toward living the life you desire. Maybe something unexpected recently happened in your life and you're not sure how to navigate through. Maybe your mind is racing all the time, making it difficult for you to focus and accomplish your goals. Maybe your relationships have suffered because of this. Maybe you just feel stuck and need someone to help guide you through this phase of your life. Regardless of your current struggles, we can help. Our goal is to help clients develop new skills and insights to improve the quality of their lives, relationships, and careers and move from simply surviving to thriving. In addition to highly-tuned intuition, we integrate action-oriented strategies to increase insight and awareness into what isn’t working, which opens the doors for lasting change. We understand no two people are alike, so we don’t adhere to a “one-size-fits-all” model. Our tailored approach is simple: implement a straightforward, no-nonsense model using evidence-based, solution-focused strategies for fast, effective, long-lasting results.

I have been working with children, adolescents and families for 16 years. I have training in psychodynamic therapy, trauma work, DBT and CBT. I am committed to helping families achieve their goals using a variety of techniques. I put my heart into my work and it comes through in each session! I will help you or your child find the right path for you to overcome your obstacles. Feel free to reach out to me and have a consultation to see how I can help you and your family.

Providing individual, couples and family counseling. Treatment specialization includes: Have the comfort knowing that you will work with a certified specialist in Anger Management, recognized by the NYS Court System. Certificates handed out after completion of the program. ** Note: Home visits are welcomed Through Anger we can feel Depressed develop Anxiety, etc Licensed Specialist in Anger issues(NAMA) Couples Counseling Family Counseling Parenting Support Grief Counseling Work and Career issues Stress Management Conflict Resolution Life Coach Counseling College Consulting/SAT/ACT I work with a wide range of emotional and behavioral issues providing services that span from therapy for depression and grief counseling to parenting support, couples counseling and beyond. In a comfortable and supportive atmosphere, I offer a highly personalized approach tailored to each of my clients individual needs to help attain the personal growth they’re striving for. Talk. Still the best medicine! Talking in a therapethic relationship can free people from troubling patterns of behavior and make it possible for them/you to have a wider range of choices in life. You will find: Reduced Anxiety Stop Destructive patterns Find yourself creating new idea's communication and intimacy Self awareness Self Acceptance Self-Respect

Life can be challenging! Are you are longing to feel more connected to your partner, feeling overwhelmed by work, trying to do it all and have no time for yourself? Whether relationship, work or family challenges are troubling you, I can help. Over the years I have developed my own unique style of psychotherapy which is Active, Creative and Time-sensitive. It is active, since I take an "Active" stance and help you figure out what is wrong and how to remedy the problems that are troubling you. The solutions will be derived using both your own and my "Creative" lens which will give you a new perspective on your life. My therapeutic approach is "Time-sensitive." This means that I will work with you to complete therapy as quickly as possible. I tailor therapy to meet each client’s unique needs. Drawing from a wide range of expertise & experience, we will collaboratively develop the best therapeutic plan for you. I involve clients actively in the process. Time-sensitive therapy is as brief as possible, but the therapeutic relationship lasts for a lifetime. Depending on the issues addressed, some clients may be in therapy for a few months while others may come for a few years. After completing a segment of therapy, over the years, clients often return for a tune up or to consult about a new issue or life challenge. Each time a client returns, therapy tends to be briefer.

Increased stress within our professional and our personal relationships can impact us and our loved ones so intensely that we all need a little extra support to get through these moments. Everyone has strengths, and I help men, women, couples and families use their strengths to move forward to brighter days ahead.

My practice specializes in treatment trauma, both individual and complex, with Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). EMDR is an evidence/research model that is successful in the treatment of recent and past traumatic events. EMDR is especially helpful to clients who have experienced trauma given it is not an exposure treatment model and does not required extensive talking about the traumatic incidents. The first two sessions are used to develop a psychosocial history and to identify the specific events to be desensitized with EMDR. Prior to treatment of traumatic events, clients create and practice realization tools to help with the success of the therapy. Traumatic incidents are scaled on the Subjective Units of Disturbance Scale ( 0 to 10) with 10 being the most severe. The goal in treatment is to bring the level of distress for the trauma to 0 or neutral. In addition, I specialize in working with Homicide Survivors, an individual who has had a member of their family murdered. I use the EMDR and the Recent Event Protocol to focus on and desensitize the event for the victim.

On the outside, everything's fine. But on the inside? Is there a part of your life that feels wrong...maybe even downright awful? Is your child's behavior oppositional and you need parenting skills? Are your marriage or personal relationships strained or disconnected? Are you making a career move and you don't know how to begin? These and other life issues can lead to anxiety and depression. How do you cope with those? You know something needs to change... I provide real and positive counseling, never hesitating to be direct when something is off and for finding laughter or a smile even at the toughest times.

My goal is to assist individuals, couples and families to develop emotional and relational well-being. This is done by learning new skills and having experiences so that new feelings and behaviors can be integrated into our life and relationships. When couples come in for marriage counseling they are usually in some sort of distress, frequently one or both not feeing their emotional needs are being met. When stressed people tend to either react or shut down, thus impeding communication. It is also hard for one to empathize and comfort the other when in a stress state. When each learns how to monitor their own stresses and has the tools for alleviating stress, relationships fair better. At this point it becomes easier to dialogue and learn about the other's needs and communicate ours. Indviduals seek counseling or coaching frequently because of stress in relationships. They may be experiencing anxiety or depression as a result. These relationships problems can be in family, at work or with friends. On occasion someone may seek psychotherapy for personal growth reasons, they want to feel they can understand themselves better and improve the relationship they have with themselves. Singles who are looking to find the right relationship also may seek counseling in order to help clarify who they are and who would be a good match for them. At other times people are suffering from trauma that has occurred from childhood wounds or more recent events. Until these wounds and traumas are healed and resolved they may impact the current functioning and wellbeing of the individual.